Whispers of love

 Can not deny the fact. In fact, modern man is not a lack of love, but do not know how to maintain love. each pair of lovers are eager to love can last forever, eager to grow old, for them to consult a psychiatrist, in the dead of night to wait for radio programs on gender issues, communication by telephone and psychologists, and others to avoid face to face the embarrassment of talking about their private lives, their frustration, depression how to solve?
how to get along between the two is an art. To love can last long, have to know the difference between men and women, make the best running his own marriage. language can accomplish in your marriage, but also make love burst. love both men and women to change the communication skills, from language to proceed Managing Your Marriage.
wise woman to know how to stop to help a man prepared to do something, and then express their feelings. if she would like to ask what they will wait until another euphemism when calm discussion. If the man forgot was done to her request, she would rightly insist on that. being a woman, have to learn to cheer for the man rather than gloating. men need most is the trust and support from women. woman's help, trust, gratitude, worship , recognition and encouragement, will make them high-spirited. The most important is that women do not try to change him, give him support and care for silence.
men and women to communicate, we need to support her, rather than passive listening, while the militant problems aside, to avoid problems and to help her solve her complaints to the urge to embrace themselves and try to understand her feelings, to clear her dissatisfaction, and finally waiting for an opportunity to give her some encouragement, understanding or help to express her concerns. Men need to learn to listen to women talk, to meet their needs for love. men listened intently, never let a woman dumping a woman if the man also pay attention to the needs and aspirations, and generous support, she will be flattered.
companion's happiness is man's pride, make a point to create a permanent relationship with each other, it is a woman's achievement. sexes may still manage different languages, but so they can convey the right messages to each other later, naturally complete harmony, can long.
recent domestic selling . This is a very valuable books, its men and women to understand the communication is an outstanding contribution.
as its companion, John Gray in his new book, emotional communication between men and women for the proposition, in order to exhort the way one day, from a psychological perspective, the differences between men and women to explore in depth, analytical psychological disorders caused by a variety of reasons, Toward gender know-how to get along, all between the lines gives a clear insight as inspired mind paying around .365 the revelation, understanding, harmony, tolerance, creativity, caring, understanding, etc., the day reminds us to pay attention to the differences between the sexes, face each other characteristics, timely and effective manner for multi-directional adjustment, intention of operating their own marriage, so that both sexes get along in love, communication skills, gender relations are no longer confused and puzzled.
This latest introduction by the Chinese Press Bible, we should go with the heart!
thought the opposite sex with himself, if we love each other, we should hold a particular thought, feeling and behavior; annoyed if the other party, our solution may be helpful for you. So, if in-depth understanding of gender differences , we can avoid unnecessary frustration and disappointment.
. would have been different with nature, please keep in mind that.
book includes three hundred sixty-five inspiration day to remind you that attention to gender differences. every time short enough to figure it out, so that you see the differences between men and women, to promote mutual cooperation, no longer feel lost and confused relations between the sexes.
support each other through the gender make love grow each day.
Although the theory has its men and women follow different context, but not easy to remember and reflect, as they, after all, very new concept, so that when we need it most often forgotten. However, if a little reminder, you can trust the opposite sex to arouse us to accept, understand and appreciate a more efficient way to give and receive love.
Although the process of learning new things in the inevitable setbacks, but if through practice and application of new knowledge will eventually become instinctive. < br> We must continue to well-known gender difference in order to grasp the principle of gender relations.
Generally speaking, people in learning something completely new, must be learned and forgotten, and must be repeated several times, finally to become instinct. Therefore, I will remind readers of the book three hundred and sixty-fifth, every day you read the article, is equivalent to his one-year opportunity to master the new techniques of gender relations.
book as you point out the most important concepts of gender relations. I believe that the gender can help new readers have a general understanding of the difference. waiting for you after getting familiar with gender differences, gender relations in the face of inevitable and challenges, they will not know what to do , and can be more concerned, more specifically in dealing with the problem.
conquer the challenges of love, making love is more firmly.
please listen to me, deep down you desire to love and be loved in fact, if able to read the book, the final cheer for the victory must be you. Moreover, no matter how steady love, or need your business, so, let this book help you create a dream in the relations between the sexes it!
Thank you You allow me to participate in your life, create more love for the world. May endless love in your heart.
Grenada
John Gray John Love Daily Reminder > January
January is the beginning of Vientiane, is the financing of one year, the timing of a comeback. Over the past year is past, we can start over with a new look, view the picture of life, committed to the desire to achieve love and be loved.
atmosphere in January to celebrate the beginning, so we believe that: stronger close .
However, we know that they will face challenges this year, when problems come, we should keep in mind, relations between the sexes is like a garden, you need daily watering. want to have a garden in bloom, it must good care of flowers per plant grass.
relations between the sexes is like gardens, need daily watering.
Similarly, in the relations between the sexes, we also have to remember the needs of partners and our needs are often different. If we can keep in mind Great men and women of different ideas, always pay attention to each other can remind you of important differences. Only in-depth understanding of the differences between men and women in order to create harmonious relations between the sexes, while recognizing their desire for love and happiness.
everyone create the ideal gender relations. If you believe that love exists, can be found to show the power of love. With a broad mind, you will be able to let go pursue the highest goal of love and be loved.
given special care, sowing new species, weeding, everything is dispensable. Similarly, if want to continue to love the sweet escapes, you have to understand the love of the season and climate, take care of their special needs.
We must be familiar with the different seasons of love in order to reap the success of gender relations. Sometimes love is more smooth and natural, and sometimes be hard to worry about; sometimes our hearts full, sometimes I feel empty without the. We should not expect perfect partner, sub- seconds, minutes and seconds loves us; we must give ourselves space, inclusive their own negligence. love to learn and apply not only to listen, but also includes the process of forgetting and remembering.
next time you do not know how When the opposite sex, remember that great men and women different criteria, you can slowly remove the heart of criticism and resentment, adhere to the pursuit of ideal love, I believe the final will be able to create the love relationship you want.
Daily Reminders of Love Drowning in the resistance and anger.
fact, blame the partner is a shrink, depending on each other's signs, if we can temporarily from friends, family, and comfort themselves, may not be so picky. In addition , critical attitude will partner pushed from the side, therefore, only to master the road from the office in order to create a relationship between sub-lingering. If we are too dependent on each other, even their soul mate, will conflict.
January 3
seek emotional support
all modern women no longer rely on a man's confined to the role of housewife and mother of two, they also want women to nourish their love life, not like children, loved them as.
I would not say a generation of people do not need emotional support, but it is not on the generation of the main expectations of marriage. The last generation of people, if the father will work well, providing for the family, the mother will be satisfied; if the mother is willing to manage the home and educate their children, do not bother Dad Dad should have nothing to complain about.
However, the generation can not meet the needs of our generation. We are no longer willing to sacrifice like them, wronged themselves, but to only partner from the body, be long-lasting, warm and happy intimacy. If not, many people would rather sacrifice the marriage, put their personal desires above the integrity of the family.
requires a lot more than the previous generation, in fact, nothing wrong, this not self-indulgent performance. Times have changed, our values should be different from their elders.
If you want a satisfying love life, divorce, or self-sacrifice in fact not a solution, but should be to learn, create to meet the individual needs of a sexual relations and marriage.
modern man is not a lack of love, but hope to give and receive more love.
learn to love and lasting until the new techniques, or sexual relations only will be disappointing, the divorce rate will remain high.
take a long time, often the other's behavior will be taken for granted. the man is no longer a surprise to the woman carefully arranged the appointment, the woman is no longer grateful for her meticulous and considerate man. honeymoon is over, it is easy to identify, the person must know that we love him and support him instead of trying so graciously expressed concern and gratitude.
However, the wise woman in her favor when the man trying to discuss the performance of the pleasure in mind. She does not care about his mistakes, and will try to thank him for his good. Similarly, a wise man will use all kinds of little tricks to show her charm, attentive to her needs and wishes, not to arrange appointments and romantic time alone, to meet the needs of women wish to be loved .
January 5

If you want to create a culture of gender relations of mutual interdependence between the sexes, the following four tips:
1. a target of communication - to understand each other.
2. Deep understanding - understanding, appreciation, and respect each other's differences.
3. aside criticism - to give up their negative criticism of each other.
4. to accept responsibility - both sides have to this Field relations officer, and learn to forgive each other.
these four tips can release your potential and create a new love relationship, to achieve your hopes and dreams. They will help you understand the past, gender issues, and provide a solid basis for your future based on a long-term and stable emotionally.
January 6

Please listen to me listen to her male partner a woman just want to air their grievances when Men are often too busy to provide a solution. this time, if women have good relationship skills, you can stick to their position to obtain from him the necessary support. as long as know how to break him, and asked him to pause to listen, a woman can continue to pour out, do not stop to listen to him quite a discussion.
woman earlier that he did not need a solution, the more they can make a man stop and talk, listen carefully.
example, if she listens to the man, then began to express their views, and this time the woman may wish to interrupt his talk, and told him: also like to thank for taking the time to listen to each other. For example, she can say: > more is to get women to take care of others, the more will not just concentrate on themselves, coupled with daily necessities such as trivia, blinded by a deep sense of her desire, under heavy pressure to make her difficult to relax and enjoy the joy of simple functional .
sex can satisfy man's desire, relieve the backlog of long-term women.
woman experiencing pain in her care of her man, can once again indulge their own experience. When a woman is temporarily remove the responsibility of caring for others, they feel of initiation, when a man gentle and romantic flirting, moving her natural desires can hook.
million women in the tender touch, the will begin to taste the taste of desire. sometimes met unless otherwise many women with their needs in this respect do not know. If gentle man to meet her needs, will help women explore dig their own needs, let her know how open to be.
Reminder Do you have a idea want to have sex? , just as sweet silver bell.
Maybe next she will discuss why they do not want to make love: ; I do not particularly want you, my head now also thinking about a lot of other things, maybe I should go to such and such done in advance to say. side when a man can listen to remind myself, companion and did not refuse him, she just needs to talk about, things just finishing well.
if men do not understand the woman, hear her every possible excuse, it may burst into the whole consumer was. In fact, to hear that as long as possible from her mouth, she will be easier to listen to that mess into an excuse. Even though she was not wanted, or may be her partner, said: to, we can first do a rush, have time later and then slowly Simo. to understand and forgive each other's mistakes. in distress, we can only learn through love, can grow together. love a perfect person, everyone can do, but that is unrealistic.
accused each other when , please do some soul.
when we complain about each other, we must first do some soul, understand their feelings. unless his love and forgiveness from the point of view, otherwise we can not expect to understand each other.
even know each other disadvantages and limitations, but still able to care for each other without any regrets, this is the true meaning of love. We often mouth the hope that others can fall in love with the real us, but we really do accept the other's original ? learning true love is a gradual process that requires patience and tolerance attitude to learning and communication.
January 10
responsibility
men often think that a man married, do not have to worry about business relationship between the two. but in fact he had to understand that gender relations are also part of the job, but also in the business process, is bound to experience ups and downs.
putting up good relationship, you have to work and leisure in the balance.
So if men want to have a good relationship, we must correct his own expectations, not only should not be too focused on other matters, it should try to learn to respect, care partner's feelings and needs, while to maintain their masculinity, which are the primary responsibility of men. if slowly learn to listen to her feelings, men would be more willing to support a female, at the same time feel the feelings of the demand. man's heart, can make a woman more calm.
is a natural phenomenon, not too alarmed. Just as the heat of love, sometimes cool, you partner will not always be high-pitched sexuality.
partner desires when you slowed, as it is no longer the sun rainy days. However, the cloudy in the sun has not disappeared, but a temporary Yan Qu fills the clouds, clouds cover the period of time, is most likely to come when the temptation.
attraction between the sexes when down, we often inadvertently focussed on others.
When this happens, instead of sitting Choucheng difficulties, it is better to take the initiative. a healthy sex life to satisfy their desire to be the basis, if the over-reliance on partners, but the final suffocate each other's sexuality. sometimes in order to enhance the to talk directly to their feelings; but when a man upset, you need to organize thoughts alone, quiet, talking only after opening.
Generally speaking, the reason why men want to communicate, primarily because of communication can help resolve the problem. For example: Suppose someone inadvertently offend or hurt him, he will say it, so that the other party admitted the mistake, or to improve the problem.
However, men often in their own state of mind to face the woman complained, mistaking her complaint was that the accused He is not, or asking him to make a change. In fact, the female partners in the sharing of the inner world, no matter how angry tone, how sharp words, she really just want to understand her feelings only male companion.
man In a fit of anger, the force will be easily lead to disputes discussed.
If both sides understand the gender difference in attitude of life, the woman will be angry at the man, give him to retain some space and let him watch TV or watch a movie all right, rather than to force him to talk. even if he was willing to communicate, the woman did not ask the hard, but should wait to talk to him calmly at a later date.
January 13

sometimes love at first sight Some characteristics of men make women think: Nature makes the most lovely woman side show, distribution of infinite charm, and even at her own initiative to pursue the offensive, leaving him ready to accept the results of interest in dull, but also weakened his affection for her.
smart woman knows How to actively seek, but not subsidizing.
If in fact women are smart enough, will be based on the actual exchanges between the two, using different ways to pursue a man, and even a soft spot, she should keep in mind: even if the other party may is the ideal companion for life should be entrusted, if their relationship is still in its infancy, she was not deep enough for his knowledge, the two have not discussed marriage, she does not completely pay the wishful thinking, or would only be less .
dislike, even hate each other when certain acts. For most people, used the word.
fact, hate is just love thwarted only when symptoms produced nothing more. When you love a person, and the other a practice so you can not love, to accept when You hate the kind of behavior will naturally - because you want to change each other, love the feeling of a good recovery.
remission if not anger, it will gradually transformed into hate.
So, when you can not share, express the hearts of negative emotions, these feelings will gradually accumulate to overwhelm you; or you will do everything to suppress, however, even if you do forget, they still affect you - the hate, makes you in the face of gender relations, often overreact, or pushing the opponent abruptly.
January 15
are not so bad
women to vent their emotions, men often told the woman, worried Just listen to a woman complain, is a very positive attitude of trust and tolerance.
smart woman knows that as long as not to force a man, but will he pay more attention to her feelings, and can relax, listen carefully, not to suppress her emotions. The next time you want to take the initiative to talk to, we might tell him: to talk about, feel your care, you do not need to say or do.
end a relationship breaking up, Most people will find some variety of reasons, wrote down in my mind all the other I really do not deserve, so I have grand reason to leave you. You do not have to wait until the love went out to break up. the so-called break up, the truth is only to prepare for the next love.
cheerful mind enables us to find a suitable object, to see people who do not suit .
If you understand some of the function of gender relations is to pave the way for us, people learn lessons and move forward. even if it broke up, you will not hate each other. In fact, when you love someone, does not mean that was with his life.
less and less. the main reason the sharp reduction in sexual desire between husband and wife, nothing more than men feel that women are always so many excuses; and the woman is man that you love enough, do not know much. Women do not want to have sex, you can not understand the sensitive man vulnerable; and men need a companion did not understand love moisture and good communication, is pleased to accept the man's invitation to enter the world of desire.
slowed many couples desire when the issue between each other is still totally feel.
in order to maintain sexual relations between husband and wife, both sides must establish a free and easy, positive discussion healthy development, like a live dragon; while women think the man's bed if sleeping mat skills proficiency, but also know how to care for her, and her burning desire will naturally move from time to time. Qingyimianmian unhindered communication and encouragement, is a woman most in need of nutrients . For men, a good relationship is important, but sex is an indispensable cornerstone of maintaining relations between the sexes.
regular sex (every two to three times) is an important part of maintaining a happy marriage. husband and wife if not a week to love a few times, is likely to occur because of communication barriers, rather than simply do not desire it. At this point if rely on external assistance, including access to sex counseling, gender desires will be able to once again burning.
no starting a regular sex.
January 18
self-healing
when we have a calm and harmonious relations between the sexes, the past resentments and pain will inevitably emerge slowly. These sentiments struck quite vague, you can hardly aware of them turned out to be divorce each other. We will always act with a partner to explain their emotions swing, but unfortunately that is not the main reason.
is wrong to blame the behavior of your partner will only make the wound more painful.
when you hurt because of past pain and become very irritable and critical, but not at liberty to give vent to, they will like a child causing trouble. emotional reactions happen, we must learn to be responsible for themselves and learn to love and tolerance.
mood low, we must regard themselves as like a child to care, or to see a psychiatrist. It is our responsibility to take care of themselves, even as close as partners, we have no right to ask for this responsibility.
at this time is self- treatment, soothing his time, and can take this to know where their parents have neglected their duties.
Do not forget, hope to appease their partner is tantamount to asking them to play the role of parents.
the more we rely on partners to change himself, the deeper will be led astray. Therefore, only carry the responsibility to take care of themselves, to let your partner from becoming the object of our blame.
Jan. 19 change is difficult

Sometimes it is very difficult to change. However, the gradual change in the process, slowly, you will feel everything is getting easier, fun, and gain too much. once you learn to improve the skills of each individual in the life level and gender relations, and will live richer.
skills in all relations between the sexes, the most important one is that we must understand that skills are tested repeatedly failures, despite repeated learning until skills become instinctive reaction so far. Knowing this, we can more patience and tolerance. learn new skills though sometimes annoying, but the process is quite interesting. after the application of new techniques to get immediate feedback, but will continue to give you hope to encourage and support.
long as willing to take the first step, your relationships will be able to immediately amazing progress, as long as the diligent practice, skills will be able to it more at maturity. passion between two people not only long-term , intimacy can also be promoted.
will last, always live happily ever after. no one will think of marriage: divorce - do you think? Finally, the men and women are always confused drifting Maguire life miserable.
gender relations, if you want your quality is better than the previous generation, but also get true love, you have to make good business. First of all, you have to lend a to recognize their own ways to learn to love, feel the hearts of the intimacy, gratitude and longing for love. The most likely way of learning knew nothing of love pretend to mind one by one for beginners to learn.
beginner's mind make people open mind, learn new things.
the construction of gender relations is an art and a science, like bridge, like the cooking, or playing a musical instrument, requires skill and constant practice. etc. You caught essentials, and naturally will become your first instinct.
for the time being there no matter what your previous experience, but really to promote the relations between the sexes can learn skills.
January 21 < br> Do not rush
the wisdom of waiting to go to bed! that men have the opportunity to upgrade to a higher realm of sensuality, the expression of affection to the woman, and this is the wisdom of a woman waiting for.
dating men after the first three stages (attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity), the original desire will become your need for affection, and then to discuss the woman's favor, said her real interest, women also have the opportunity to put this into a love interest . When a man desires to express through the love of a woman, it is the best time to enhance intimacy.
waiting many forms. Maybe you choose to have sex right away, but the emotional reservations; or if you choose to suppress sexual desire, until the understanding of each other, with feelings say. on a first date, if wisely keep their own, but more opportunities to deepen the man of your interest and curiosity.
relations are each unique, in the face of br> by dating a woman often the first to cultivate their feelings, and then choose whether or not a relationship. On the contrary, the first thought is of a man, then only choose to put feelings. has been reluctant to go to bed or a relationship immediately, in fact, the effect is not certain. However, if you want this woman to In the event of relationship, when to talk about feelings sharing in the open, create a close emotional; men will be in the woman's whole-hearted support and care, the increasing experience of love. If a woman is more open and to reveal themselves, the man will be able to gradually get to know her, If he can continue to support because of understanding each other, have the opportunity to get love hearts grow.
January 22 release of negative emotions

vent their emotions is not difficult, how difficult is not assault cases, to express negative emotions.
tips very simple fact, that is, pour out to others feelings. If we totally express your feelings will naturally release negative emotions, thus freeing space for positive emotional quietly stationed.
However, to express the emotions are not a panacea, and sometimes more often complained, the more is suffering forever, last but not extricate themselves. The reason this happens, mostly because we have neglected a kinds of emotional components. like that, we think we are angry or sad, but in fact the real reason is fear. If we can invest a little thought, and explore the treatment of four emotions: anger, sadness, fear and guilt to will be able to identify the root causes of negative emotions. the importance of each component is not an emotional high and low points, if one ignores one of these, you will get lost in the other emotions, can not extricate themselves.
may not be able to talk solve the problem, but sometimes makes us sink deeper and deeper.
calm down and view these negative emotions, will inspire us to love and be loved in positive emotions, positive attitude that can provide us with g ...